Lai

来 (come/arrive)
China origin · Unisex name
10% boys90% girls
#1569US 2023
631Births / yr
Stable
256All-time births
📅 Since 195300

What does Lai mean and where does it come from?

The name Lai has Chinese and Vietnamese origins. In Chinese, it can mean 'come' or 'arrive', often symbolizing hope or new beginnings. The name is mostly used in northern China and among Vietnamese communities. The character 来 is used for the name in Chinese writing. Variants of the name exist in di

Cultural significance
Lai has been a cherished name across cultures, particularly in China-speaking communities, where it reflects values of 来 (come/arrive).
Peak popularity
Reached #4388 in 1984 — currently #1569 in the US.
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What middle names flow best with Lai?

Lai works best with short, strong middle names — one or two syllables keep the full name from becoming a mouthful

Lai Grace
Most popular combo · classic
Lai Rose
Floral · soft ending
Lai Mae
Sweet · timeless
Lai Claire
French influence · crisp
Lai Jane
Literary · strong
Lai Skye
Modern · airy feel
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How popular is Lai right now?

Holding steady — currently #1569 in the US out of 135.5k tracked names

US Trend 19752023#1569 · Top 1.2%
1975
1980
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2021
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2023
YearUS RankBirthsvs Prior Year
2023#1569631▲ up 5 · +3% births
2022#1574611▲ up 5 · +5% births
2021#1579581▲ up 13150 · +9583% births
2015#147296▲ up 654 · +20% births
2000#153835▼ down 4600 · -29% births
1995#107837▼ down 3303 · -36% births
1990#748011▼ down 323 · +22% births
1985#71579▲ up 2313 · +50% births
1980#94706▼ down 2701 · -25% births
1975#67698

The story of Lai

Lai entered American naming records in 1953 and has been in use for over 71 years. With 256 total births recorded, Lai remains relatively uncommon. The name has grown more popular over time, rising from #6769 in 1975 to #1569 in 2023. Lai is used for both genders: 90% female and 10% male.

Names that peaked alongside Lai in 1984:

Lai by decade

Lai peaked in the 1980s. See all 1980s names →

DecadeBirths
1950s5
1960s5
1970s26
1980s111
1990s92
2000s11
2010s6
💎Lai has only 256 total recorded births since 1953 — rarer than 99% of names in our database.

What are good nicknames for Lai?

Common
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Common questions about the name Lai

What does the name Lai mean?
Lai means "来 (come/arrive)" — a name rooted in China tradition that carries both historical depth and timeless appeal. The meaning reflects values that have made this name endure across generations.
How popular is the name Lai?
Lai is currently a distinctive and less common name as a baby name in the US and is holding steady in popularity, a reliable classic that parents consistently choose.
What is the cultural origin of Lai?
Lai originates from China tradition. China names tend to carry strong cultural heritage and have spread across the world through migration, literature, and religion over centuries.
How does Lai sound with different last names?
As a one-syllable name, Lai flows best with last names of two or three syllables. Avoid last names ending in the same sound as Lai ends, as this can create an unwanted rhyme. Test by saying the full name out loud several times.
Is Lai a common or rare name?
Lai is a distinctive choice that balances familiarity with individuality. It strikes a balance between standing out and fitting in.